Working with our Sacred Messages
Everything we experience which is not love, is a message and an opportunity to grow more towards feeling, being and sharing love
- and living this love we can feel in our heart, in every aspect of our life - for the good of all.
When our heart is closed (hurt), we continue to co-create (with the energy of our emotions, our thoughts and actions) all that
is not love and harmony in the world (war, injustice, famine, disease, environmental disharmony, etc.).
Every experience, which we attract with our own energy (love and non-love),
is either an opportunity to:
- share the level of love we can feel based on the healing
we have or have not completed in ourselves or
- heal an emotion / experience in us which then allows us to
feel and share more love and compassion with others
Golden Sun, Juerg Dreamturtle 2002
Of course, we all prefer the loving experiences rather than feeling the
unpleasant – but then we simply stagnate and miss the opportunity to heal and grow towards love and true
self.
And so the energy in us continues to call forth (from the perfection of all) another opportunity to transform an unhealed emotion and experience in us, which longs for forgiveness – feeling of love and
compassion.
Once we have healed a certain aspect, the energy in us then attracts and co-creates the trigger / messenger which offers us the next opportunity to feel, heal and grow to an even deeper level of love.
We are likely to try everything to avoid the trigger and messenger – through i.e. going into nature, working, meditating, building our own "sheltered" life or we remove ourselves from people, situations, which are "unpleasant". Our heart then remains closed and we simply delay our true healing and growth towards feeling love and living in harmony with the good of
all.
Every disease (cancer, diabetes, asthma, Aids, etc.), disharmony, challenge, unpleasant experience or relationship, accident, circumstance, situation and every mind-based emotion (hurt, anger, fear, etc.) is a messenger.
Every messenger shows us what is in us, longing to be healed and transformed to feeling, being and sharing love – and where in our life we are not in harmony with our heart and the good of
all.
It is our choice whether we listen to the messenger
(and we are grateful for the "trigger" to bring us the message) and
we work through what is longing in our heart to love and forgiveness.
Or, we choose to (consciously or unconsciously) push away
or avoid the messenger (and the "trigger"!)
so that we do not have to feel the truth in us and in our life.
When we are hurt we function largely from a wounded mind and not from an open, feeling heart – as a result, we merely "EXIST" and "SURVIVE" in a world of fear (the world our mind can "see", rather than the world our heart can feel!), whether we are rich or poor, ill or healthy, successful, beautiful,
etc.
When our heart is closed (hurt), we cannot feel whether a relationship, a job, a friendship, a choice, etc. are in true harmony with our heart and true self.
Until we have healed the many layers of our own wounded heart, we are "wounded healers" (doctors, teachers, parents, partners, lovers). We then focus on removing the messenger (wound) – mostly in OTHERS – not realizing that others
trigger a wound in us!
Until we have healed our own heart we are unable to deeply share the energy of love and compassion and experience of our own sacred healing journey with others.
When we are wounded, we act and react from a closed heart – which in turn wounds others. Or we can suppress our true emotions and put on a "
mask".
People are hurting others because they are defending and reacting from their own wounded emotion / experience and armoured heart.
Each time we act or react from a wounded aspect in us,
we reinforce the wounded energy in us, in others and in all.
The same is the case when we deny or hide being wounded!
Central Otago, Juerg Dreamturtle 2003
When we are hurt and we react to what we experience and see, we are not conscious of the fact that WE co-create the VERY SAME energy, which is behind "the trigger", i.e. the President who invades another country, the logger who cuts a native tree, the person who abuses an animal, the driver on the road, etc.
However, feeling "nothing" is also not the answer, as this does not co-create love and compassion in our life and in the world.
"When we truly feel love, it is impossible for us to "feel nothing!"
We cannot heal through our mind. Yes, understanding and accepting the parent who has hurt us, is important and it helps us to not feel so angry and hurt anymore – but it does not mean we have truly forgiven and can feel love and
compassion.
Forgiveness does not mean to "forget", or to "let go" – that is only a mind thought and not healing or feeling love.
Forgiveness and healing requires for us to feel love and compassion for e.g. the father and mother AND our respective experiences and
related feelings and
emotions.
We have not truly forgiven, unless we feel love and compassion
for EVERY person and EVERY experience in our life.
My mind says I am "happy", but my heart says I am sad!
If we are not prepared to truly forgive, we are not able to feel our longing for love and forgiveness in our heart – we are not able to feel our
Sacred Sadness and our heart remains
closed!
In order for us to open our heart and grow towards feeling, being and sharing love, we must allow ourselves to FEEL our Sacred Sadness.
Sacred Sadness is the golden thread for us to connect and transform with what is longing in our heart for forgiveness, love and compassion to the depth of our being.
"Being Love," means living with an open, feeling heart
and living in harmony with our heart for the good of all,
in every aspect of our life!
In order to truly experience love and happiness, we must heal what is in us. We must be TRUE to what we have healed in our heart, with regard to every person and every aspect of our life. Only then will we be free and only then will we experience the perfection of all, every day.
As we consciously heal and grow towards feeling, being and sharing love, we are also helping others to open their hearts and to grow towards their own healing, with our energy of love and compassion – our own being – and the wisdom we can then share from our own healing journey.
